Posted by Erin (and sometimes The Todd)
on Apr 21, 2010
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Activist Mom,
Charities--what's your passion? Need one?
With the suckiest economy in 85 years, I’m not telling you anything that news, but everyone’s favorite charity is struggling. There’s an amazing company–WIworks Inc– who’s willing to devote $10,000.00 in skills to create a new website, or promote the living bejeebers out of a non-profit you care about. At the end of May, they’ll award the $10,000.00 prize. Be the hero and nominate your favorite non-profit and then harrass all of your friends into voting for it. I know one of the rock stars who’s running this, and your favorite charity will be set up.
Click here to nominate your favorite charity. Good luck!
Tags: charity, non-profits, WIworks Inc.
I’ve been absolutely thrilled and touched with the outpouring of response from my fellow budget bloggers regarding the crisis in Haiti–so many of these women have come up with creative and hopeful ways to offer financial and spiritual support. Most seem to follow along the lines of donating for each comment they receive. I will tell you that The Todd and I have already donated to the Red Cross. If you missed my earlier post, you can simply text “Haiti” to 90999…you will receive a text back asking you to approve the charges…$10.00 will be sent to the State Department’s designated charity, the Red Cross. You can also donate at www.redcross.org.
Our experiences in radio and working with disaster relief experts has taught us some important lessons, I’m hoping you might find them helpful, too.
1. The days for canned food drives are over. The disaster relief groups already on the ground can spend your donation and get triple the value in food, medicine, cleaning supplies, etc. because of their connections. Any food or clothing donations cost more to ship than they’re worth.
2. Don’t under-estimate the power of prayer. Or…lighting a candle…or meditating…or song…whatever you do to offer spiritual hope and comfort to those suffering.
3. Learn about what you can do after the immediate crisis. FEMA executives have told us that the real hope for places like these come after the crisis is past. Those who developed an interest, read about the region, learned about local charities–these are the people who make the difference in long-term recovery.
The Todd and I are fortunate to know the Aitkens, an amazing family from Utah who built an orphanage in Haiti and are awaiting word of the three beautiful little ones they’re adopting from there. They were nearly finished with the paperwork and were going to bring them home in March. Can you imagine? So, our passion will be the long-term recovery of Hope For Little Angels of Haiti. In a couple of months we’ll be holding a fundraiser to rebuild the orphanage and we’ll be going over with the Aikens to work on helping in the recovery of a beautiful culture. I hope that you will find a project there that inspires your passion as well. I’ll pass along information about Hope For Little Angels of Haiti as we begin our work–maybe you’d like to be involved!
Love and gratitude to everyone who’s opening their hearts this week!
Tags: charity, Haiti, prayer, Red Cross, support
Posted by Erin (and sometimes The Todd)
on Nov 20, 2009
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Activist Mom,
Charities--what's your passion? Need one?

I told you about Click To Give yesterday–they have 5 different charities to pick from, I’m going to profile one a day until you find the one that means the most to you. Simply put: you click on the site–you do not have to buy anything–and the advertising sponsor contributes money to your chosen cause. 100% of the sponsor’s money goes to the charity, which I love. This goes with my personal “give every day” mantra. It doesn’t have to be money to mean something…
Tags: charity, homeless
Posted by Erin (and sometimes The Todd)
on Oct 1, 2009
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When the economy first tanked and there was emotional pandemonium everywhere you looked, The Todd and I called one of the smartest therapists we knew to appear on our radio show and address what everyone was feeling. Teri Holleran is a tiny thing with huge eyes and an even bigger laugh–which she made us do several times doing the interview. But she said something interesting: that nearly the entire nation was inside what she called our “Fear Bodies.”
Fear Bodies. You know that feeling you get at three in the morning when you can’t shut your mind off and you’re picturing your family homeless on the street? Fear Body. When you scream at your husband for buying a $50.00 shirt and tell him that “I hope you’re happy! Now we won’t be able to pay our mortgage and we’ll lose the house and your children will STARVE!” Fear Body. When someone hits you up for a charitable donation and you’re suddenly, unreasonably furious at them because “dangit! Maybe YOU can throw money around but I have a family to feed!”
Fear Body.
All of our secret terrors and horror of deprivation rise to the surface and we can no longer think any further than our own little island.
I’ve been thinking about this a lot this week because I’ve received some angry comments here about my posts. When picking up school supplies, I’ve suggested getting more for your school, or maybe buying more sleepers and diapers when on sale and dropping them off at the local homeless shelter. One Mrs. Anonymous (ALWAYS my favorite kind of correspondent) accused me of being “holier than thou–stop trying to make us feel less than you because you can afford all this charity crap (her words) and we can’t!”
Mrs. Anonymous, you are totally in your Fear Body, sister. Not mad at you, because we’ve all been there. I’ve lost my job in radio just once, and 20 years later I still can feel that sick sense of terror and inadequacy. While I searched for a new one, I volunteered at a homeless shelter for women and children for 2 months. I’d like to tell you that I have NEVER EVER complained about my lot in life again. This of course, would be wildly untrue. But I did learn what those on the fringes figured out long ago. They’ve been there before. They might be there again. But they WILL climb out and do everything they can for those left behind.
Any charity will tell you the most generous benefactors are those on the lower economic levels. Why would they risk their limited funds? Why would they offer when they have so little themselves? They’ve left their Fear Body.
I know everyone’s funds are tight. I juggle bills every payday and try to figure out what I can pay in two weeks and not today. But the clutching of whatever meagre means we have to ourself lead to something worse–a paucity of the soul. I have a former radio partner who who used to scoop the tip money off the table when we’d have lunch together. (Editor’s note: I found this out after noticing a marked cooling in the attitude of our regular server and watching him in action when I went back for a forgotten sweater.) Would that 5 bucks really make the difference in the life of a man who made $75,000 a year? I dunno, but he was very fond of saying that HE was his favorite charity.
In the end, I believe that emotional deprivation and lack of generosity will cause us far more harm than the financial sort. I pitched into one of my ranting moments during our last bill-paying and The Todd tried to calm me with an arm about my shoulders. I reared back, hissing, “get your hands OFF my Fear Body!” He laughed himself sick.
But maybe we ALL need to be shaken out of our Fear Bodies. Give what you can, even if it’s just a smile or a joke. Give every day. I am the LAST person on the planet morally qualified to tell anyone what they can or can’t afford to do for their fellow man. But I will tell you that this little practice of daily sharing has made me leave my Fear Body. Hopefully, for good.

Tags: budgeting, charity, finding balance, Money
Posted by Erin (and sometimes The Todd)
on Sep 26, 2009
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Charities--what's your passion? Need one?,
Free-Bees Giveaways
Some of my girlies and I have gotten into a knitting circle, where we hang out, gossip shamelessly and knit caps for our local pediatric hospital. I haven’t knitted since learning in the Young Ladies Club at 14, and I remember spending more time gossiping shamelessly then, too. There’s a great new E Book out with all kinds of simple patterns, and it’s FREE! 24 Quick and Easy Knitting Patterns including Cables and Blocks Afghan (Page 6), sock monkeys for kids (Page 45), mop covers (Page 53), bath spa mitts (Page 68) and much more. Create your own household items or make as gifts for a friend, co-worker or family member. These knitting patterns make for some great wedding or shower gifts as well.
http://partners.mysavings.com/z/3581/CD1816/
Tags: charity, crafts, knitting, social
On Thursday, 9/24, from 5 – 8pm… Cold Stone Creamery will be offering Free 3 oz. Ice Cream Creations with a Make-A-Wish Donation. It’s a nice way to explain what donations mean to our Zachie and MacLean–they’re definitely willing to pay closer attention when there’s ice cream involved! http://www.coldstonecreamery.com/promos/makeawish/
Tags: charity, donations, ice cream